Podcast 028 – Bad Marriage Advice: Do whatever makes you happy

By Ron Ross

Every married couple wants to be happy. They want their marriage to be happy; they want their down days to be few and their nights of romantic ecstasy to be many. When their fantasy of perpetual happiness is shattered by arguments, insecurity, bad decisions, financial struggles, betrayal, addictions, sexual dissatisfaction, etc., they pop a few antidepressants, or they look around for something or someone who can make them happy.

True happiness is never found in another person or in stuff or in pills or in erotic experiences – it is found within; it is found deep in your heart when you decide to be happy – when you decide to help someone else – when you decide to be happy no matter what you are doing.

In this podcast, Dr. Ross uses the words of an old song to challenge you to “make someone happy, make just one someone happy, and then you’ll be happy too!”