Chapter 16: Healthy Marriage: Relishes in Reconciliation

Hurting Marriage: Delights in Discord

Heartfelt Marriage Podcast 060

By Ron Ross

Even the best lovers sometimes squabble. When they do, a discussion can turn into a debate and debate into a battle, and if allowed to, a battle can turn into an all-out war, and someone gets hurt. You don’t want that to happen. You want to reconcile your disagreements and create an atmosphere of harmony and unconditional love.

Dr. Ross says, “A happy and healthy marriage relationship is marked by mutuality, by a commonly held determination to achieve the oneness you dreamed about when you exchanged vows.”

To achieve that kind of harmony, a couple must relish in reconciliation and despise discord. The point is, reconciliation does not happen in a vacuum; you must make reconciliation a part of who you are.

In this podcast, Dr. Ross discusses what it takes to reconcile your disagreements. Have pen and paper handy to take notes as he reveals what reconciliation relies on.

The podcast is 9 minutes long.